Cozy Kinky Foxy Fun — How to Connect (RBC Quick Guide)
What This Is?
Cozy Foxy is connection-first. You’re not owed participation; you’re invited when you create comfort and contribute to the vibe. This guide shows how to approach, connect, and play the Foxy way.
R — RULES (Non‑Negotiable)
Prime Directive: No touching without consent.
First contact is eye contact.
Approach from the front, not the side.
The person must see you coming.
If they haven’t had time to react, you moved too quickly.
The easiest and safest way is to ask if you can touch.
At some parties, consent is initiated by touching someone on the arm. At Cozy Kinky Foxy Fun, we don’t allow unexpected touching. We also understand that not all communication has to be verbal.
Condom culture: Provided at the venue—use correctly every time.
Condoms for vaginal and anal. Anyone attempting without, or acting suspiciously, will be asked to leave straight away. (except with 1 agreed partner)
📵Mobile phones to be left in locker
📷Strictly no cameras - Photos can be taken only in approved areas. With crew consent or by the crew. No one will be expected to be in any photos
Crew authority: If a host/crew asks you to step back or reset, do it with a smile. Replying “I’m not breaking rules” = 🚩 and can lead to a ban.
B — BEHAVIORS (What “good” looks like)
Read the room — Pay attention to non‑verbal cues; body language is crucial.
Approach with consideration — Engage socially before assuming play is an option.
No ‘Zombie Dick’ syndrome — Wandering aimlessly, waiting for someone to invite you in, is not attractive.
No loopholes — Rule‑lawyering or testing boundaries will get you removed.
No lurking — If you need to engage with someone, do this in the social area.
A “no” is not a rejection of you.
Pro‑vibe (ESP) moves:
Offer water/towel/bench space; help the room breathe.
Socialize with other guys.
Unsure? Ask crew, reset, return to social zones.
C — COMFORT (How we keep it good)
Comfort > compliance. Even if no rule was broken, we adjust for comfort.
Accept rejection gracefully. No persuasion, no sulk.
If your presence changes the energy, step back and recalibrate.
Crew check‑ins are a care signal, not a court case.
If someone is making someone else uneasy, bring it up.
It is ok to make mistakes, misunderstandings happen, don't break the rules, don't be a creep and you will be fine.
SINGLE GUYS WANT THE CHANCE TO ATTEND? SEE ESP INTRO COURSE BELOW
IMPORTANT NOTE - COMPLETING TRAINING DOES NOT GUARANTEE ATTENDANCE. YOU ARE ONLY BUYING ACCESS TO THE CHECKLISTS. YOU WILL STILL NEED TO BE APPROVED BEFORE ATTENDING. WE RETAIN THE RIGHT TO REJECT PEOPLE.
The ESP Program is designed to create a more respectful, considerate, and engaging environment. The ESP Introduction Course ✅ ESP Sex Party Behavior Checklist (Level 1) ✅ ESP Messaging Checklist (Level 1) ✅ ESP Profile Content Checklist (Level 1)
