What does Jurassic Park, Star Trek and Night of the Living Dead have to do with sex party?

Star Trek - The Next Generation

At Foxy Fun Events, we have a Prime Directive similar to the one in Star Trek. Just as the Star Trek version prevents interfering with the natural development of other species. Our version also emphasises not interfering. This means not getting involved with other people by touching them without their consent.

The Foxy Fun Prime Directive - When playing DO NOT touch anyone without consent:

⚠️ Don't touch someone without their permission. Either ask or make direct eye contact so they can see you coming. No surprises.

⚠️ Go slow - Take your time and go slow. Get clear signals that the person wants to engage with you.

⚠️ First make clear eye contact 👁️Eye contact as a minimum first 👁️No touching until you have done this. Or ask (safest option)

Jurassic Sex Party

I often see guys at parties and sex clubs whose approach to joining in involves moving from person to person, like a predator seeking prey. They present themselves with their dick in hand, as if it's some sort of lure. Hoping that the shiny object will attract attention, be touched, and ultimately lead to consent, with little to no interaction needed.

Instead of putting in any real effort, they move around, opportunistically looking for weaknesses. Like the velociraptor in Jurassic Park testing the electrical fence. These are often the same individuals who touch without asking.

This approach works in many settings and can be considered common practice at some events or clubs. Without breaking any of the rules. In some scenarios, it could be an active part of the event. But, when you want to create a cozy environment, this approach looks opportunistic, entitled, lazy and predatory.

It lacks any effort to make a meaningful connection with people or contribute to the environment. It's just selfish and entitled. Which is not the vibe we want at Foxy

Leave your Big Dick Attitude at the door.

Night of the Living Dead (Dick)

One second, you are waiting to join someone slutty. The next you are lurking like a zombie dick. This can happen very quickly. But, unfortunately, it does, and it is often the same people doing it. This can make you look both creepy and desperate at the same time.

Sure, someone wanted you all around them so they could be greedy. But when that person leaves the mattress. Standing around, dick in hand, while a younger couple, who have been engrossed in each other for the last 30mins and not looked your way once. Are not giving off the vibe that she suddenly wants 6 new dicks to blow.

Attending such parties, needs to come with some awareness of your surroundings and consideration for others.

Summary

At Foxy, these approaches will be actively discouraged. It will be pointed out. This isn’t about policing and having ridged rules. I want fewer rules, not more. So we focus on a culture where we discourage bad behaviours and create good ones.

For me, this is always better than adding a new rule about how to be with someone to go on to the beds. Instead, we encourage people to interact and act with consideration for others.