Rules and Guidelines
See the rules and expectations of behaviour for FOXY FUN EVENTS. These can be summed up as being a respectful, decent person who treats others with compassion and dignity. But, there is no universal truths, even with good intentions people can be unsure how to behave and we know not everyone comes with good intentions. Therefore, we have outlined the rules and community guidelines below.
We have an excellent reputation for ensuring safety and respect are maintained. See https://www.foxyfunevents.com/blog/ for more info 😄
While the list me be long, it is built on experience. But really its no more than -
- Don't touch without asking
- Wear a condom (ok to go without with your partner)
- Act like a decent person.
- No expectation to join
- Do everything at your own pace
I want to be clear: if I feel your attitude doesn’t fit, even if you have not broken specific rules, I reserve the right to ban you.
These rules and guidelines are here to ensure everyone’s protection and comfort. They have proven effective in creating a welcoming, friendly and, above all, safe environment.
Let’s continue to look out for each other. We have a culture where people are respectful to each other. I have received this feedback numerous times. But, as we move into a new environment, we need to be vigilant and continue to build that cozy and safe culture.
🦊Together we can weed out anyone with the wrong intentions.🦊
Let me be clear – any issues we’ve had in the past have been caused by males (there have been relatively few issues though). Therefore, many of the following rules are specifically aimed at you. You must approach this environment with the understanding that your needs are secondary. While there may be opportunities for you to satisfy them. Any sense of entitlement or disrespect will not be tolerated. Treat everyone as a person.
Rules
GENTS – PLEASE NOTE that many of the rules below are not suggestions for you to ask if you can break them. As an example, anyone trying or asking to go without a condom will be asked to leave and banned from all future events. We will call the police if required.
Some common-sense rules to make this enjoyable for everyone:
The Prime Directive – When playing – Dont touch anyone without consent:
Foxy Fun Principles – Decency & Respect
Respect Boundaries: Don’t assume; communicate clearly about what you’re into and always respect others limits.
Gentlemen, Take Note: This is a space where everyone’s comfort matters, with a special focus on creating a safe environment for everyone to explore. Your understanding and support in making this a priority are essential.
⚠️ Don’t touch someone without their permission. Either ask or make direct eye contact, so they can see you coming.
⚠️ No means no. Don’t be offended, just move on. Anyone who does not do this will be asked to leave.
⚠️ Don’t be pushy and No Lurking
🚨No one should have a second thought about feeling they are spoiling the mood, they are not. If you feel you are giving clear signals, please be mindful that these may not be as obvious as you think, especially in the heat of the moment. Do not rely on this; be clear. A firm NO will clear up and prevent many misinterpretations straight away.🚨
🚨Always Contact the crew if an issue arises; it is much harder to resolve after the fact🚨
Preventing all misunderstandings is an impossible task. But, with clear communication and looking out for each other, we can prevent harm to others.
🚨Please actively communicate your personal boundaries to maintain them🚨 I cannot encourage this enough🚨
Safety Measures:
No Unwanted Surprises: Be clear about your intentions and respect others wishes.
Mindful Consumption: Be sensible folks. No drugs, and if you’re drinking, keep it classy. Anyone who is intoxicated will be asked to leave.
Community Vibes:
⚠️ Strictly No photography.
– If there are photos they will be taken by official event photographers.
– If you want a photo, ask the crew to take one
⚠️ Strictly no phone use. All phones must be kept in pockets or bags. Phone use is only allowed upstairs and for paying by swish at the bar
Any questions, please contact [email protected]