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Newsletter 3 - Foxy Fun Helper

Newsletter 3 - Foxy Fun Helper
Photo by Girl with red hat / Unsplash

This edition of the newsletter includes the following:

request for helpers, to grow the community. Including the number and type of events. Along with rewards for you bringing new people to the events.

Foxy Fun Update

Since the last newsletter, I planned to chat with more of you Foxy people at the latest Cosy Foxy to get to know who you are, why you come, and what you love about our events. But life had other plans—my daughter broke her arm, and I ended up in the hospital (she's fine now, by the way). Thanks to the many of you who reached out to me. 😊

For those of you who take the time to speak with me at the next Cosy Foxy on October 17th, I'll put you into a prize draw for a free ticket to a future Cosy Foxy! 🏆

Looking Ahead

I'm focused on making our existing events even better and turning this fun hobby into something much more professional. So, please share your suggestions—I want your input!

Current Projects

  • Trust and Safety Themes - How can we ensure the that everyone stays safe. The current focus is reading the room the room. See the latest blog post
Big Dick Attitude: Understanding the Traits of BDA
We all know that guy at the party. Good looking (according to him), big dick, full of himself. He thinks he is God’s gift and acts like it. He spends much of his time monopolising women. He is extremely good at making sure he gets what he wants. Considers that
  • Understanding Foxy People - Who are you and why do you attend?
  • Incentives: Finding more ways to reward our community.
  • More Events: Expanding our calendar to include a wider range of gatherings.
Events
Upcoming Events Cozy Foxy Fun - Every 2 Thursdays (even weeks) - See link below for details * Thursday 17th October * Thursday 31st October - Halloween Special * Prizes – Best Costume - 1st Prize - 1 x Free Cozy Foxy Tickets Ticket & 1 & Free 16th Nov - Saturday Sex Spectacular Tickets -
  • Foxy Fun Website - Foxy Fun Hub: Yes, I realize the name similarity to Pornhub—thank you to those who pointed that out. 😂 Ive clearly been too busy with the day job. We need testers - Contact me if you want to be the first users.

Foxy Fun Helpers

Foxy Crew & Ambassadors

More Fun Here

All of this Foxy Fun stuff has been an unintended super fun hobby. It just sort of happened by itself. I never set out with the intent of making events. I craved something I couldn't define. I couldn't quite find what I was looking for. I wanted a place where I could do the things I wanted, in an environment I wanted, with the people I wanted, in the comfort that I knew people truly wanted to be there. If I had arranged this myself, I could have ensured this was the case as much as possible.

I thought I wanted sex, but what I really wanted was connection, comfort, and safety.

Now, I want to turn that foundation into something more. Something more than just events. A place where anyone and everyone who identifies with this can be themselves with other like-minded people.

Using what I see as a connection super charger – Sex.

Sex here is an umbrella term that covers everything, including BDSM/KINK, etc. You are free to have your own idea of this concept; my definition is not intended to overwrite yours. This is just how I see it in my head. It can also be any sex-related topic and not just the act itself.

To grow this, I need the help of others. Others like me who also crave meaningful connection. Since I started this, people have offered me many opportunities to help. But I have yet to really take them. I don't feel comfortable accepting them. I felt like I would be taking something from them, even if they volunteered. I need to get over this and accept these offers.

With this in mind, I'm reaching out to find people who want to be involved. If you want to help - please message with the title – "Foxy Fun Help".

Let me know if you have any specific skills that can help or if you just want to help in any way needed.

Note this doesn't apply to new males, with very few verifications. Offering to help won't help you jump the fence into the network.

At this stage, I don't have a detailed plan for the help. It will take a little bit of time to see what comes up. Essentially I want people to help co-create with me.

I have come up with a few role categories, though. These are somewhat official roles, so there will be guidelines for expectations on behaviors.

Below, I have made a starter, but happy to adapt based on input.

  • Foxy Event Crew: People who can run the events and look out for others at events.
  • Foxy Fun Community Ambassadors: You are involved in helping to build and spread the community. This will be on a level of involvement that suits you and could be across one or many topics.
  • Foxy Fun Buddy System: You can help by meeting and bringing new people to the events. Being a friendly face, taking that first step into a new environment can be pretty intimidating.Also, specifically for new males - as the community opens up, we must stay focused on encouraging the right behavior. A buddy system would be a good hurdle to stop the little brain from overriding the big brain.

Look forward to hearing from you

Puss Puss

Foxy Fun Incentives

Help us, help you

More Fun Here

I want to reward you for helping to grow the community. I feel the best way to do that is to reward you for bringing new people. So I have made some incentives to encourage you to bring other like-minded people.

General Incentives

1. Foxy Fun Newsletter First 500 Sign-ups Raffle

  • Purpose: Grow the Foxy Fun Community -  The first 500 sign-ups for the newsletter will be entered into a raffle:
  • Link - https://bit.ly/3zJtJZ4
  • Prize:
    • 2 x Cozy Tickets
    • 1 x Foxy Fun Events - Saturday Sex Spectacular Tickets

Notes:.Tickets are transferable to approved members if agreed with Funsilverfox.

2. Bring a Friend  - Foxy Fun Referral Rewards Program

Purpose: I want to reward you who help bring others to join us. 

  • First Referral: 20% off your next visit.
  • Second Referral: 20% off your next visit.
  • Third Referral: Free ticket for your next visit.
  • Fourth Referral: 25% off your next visit.
  • Fifth Referral: 25% off your next visit.
  • Sixth Referral: Free ticket for your next visit and 50% off another.
  • More! -  You are a Star: Lets talk! Xx

Extra Rewards: Prize draws for bring ín new people

  • Couples Night 14th Nov - https://www.darkside.se/?event=62693
  • End of Year - Cozy Foxy See event Cozy Foxy - 12th Dec  - https://www.darkside.se/?event=62696
    • The chance to win free tickets to Cozy Foxy for all of 2025.

3. New Couples Special Offer

New Couples: Are you a new couple coming to Cozy for the first time?

  • New couples (any sex combination - Both people must be new to Cozy Foxy.)
    • 300 SEK if they arrive before 19:00
    • 400 SEK if they arrive after 19:00.
  • Also see special prizes for couples night 14th November  - https://www.darkside.se/?event=62693

You don't need to have a couples profile to attend. But please be a couple. I give a very loose definition of couples. You can be anything from good friends with benefits, to married. Just don't take the piss and become a “couple” the day before.